Cousins David and Benji, an odd pair, reunite for a trip to Poland to honor their late grandmother and explore their Jewish roots. David, a reserved father and husband, contrasts sharply with Benji, a free-spirited drifter. Their personalities clash as Benji criticizes David for losing his passion, while David struggles with Benji's chaotic behavior and lack of direction.
The two join a Holocaust tour led by James, a detached British guide. Benji’s emotional vulnerability and boundary-pushing behavior make the group uncomfortable, while David’s reserved demeanor is seen as "fake." Tensions rise when Benji criticizes James for focusing on facts rather than emotional connection, embarrassing David. Despite this, Benji inspires the group, urging them to embrace vulnerability. David challenges this, questioning why they should seek pain on a trip meant for relaxation. Benji argues that if this tour isn’t the time to grieve, then when is?
At dinner, Benji’s disruptive behavior prompts the group to confront him. David, embarrassed, apologizes and admits he envies Benji’s charm and talent, but distanced himself after Benji’s suicide attempt, unable to face losing someone so full of life. On the final day, the cousins visit a concentration camp. Benji is moved, while David remains stoic. Afterward, Benji reflects on their grandmother, who disciplined him with love. He recalls how her slap, given for being late to dinner, brought him clarity.
Later, on a rooftop, Benji presses David about their strained relationship, leading David to finally open up about his feelings of guilt and fear after Benji’s suicide attempt. The emotional breakthrough leaves them both reflective. At the airport, they part ways, having reconciled and promising to always be there for each other, with Benji reflecting on his next path in life.
